The negativity of the woman due to emotional lack in the relationship is in a way "pre-programmed". Because the man can only really love (like a woman) when he has integrated his feminine parts.
Because of her emotional need, a man can abuse a woman's pure love and take possession of her. He does this bynd by stringing her along and perpetuating her lack. In this way, he makes her invest more and more in the relationship in the hope of finally receiving. In this way he steals her life. This is black magic (for more details see Aladdin and the magic lamp - the swoon).
[S. Abuse - the stolen life.]
Dying of love in traditions
When he has taken everything from her, metaphorically speaking, "eaten everything" and there is nothing left, this leads to a dying of love and also of the relationship.
The deceased love is already in the Sumerian tradition of Inanna, the goddess of love, the theme of the three days dead in the underworld in the underworld. In Jewish tradition, the dying of love is represented by the ninth plague, namely the three days of darkness. The 10th plague, the death of the firstborn, symbolizes the dying of relationship. And also Christ stayed three days in the underworld.
[S. The Great Feminine, Life Itself, in the Underworld.]