Pain in the body
The woman experiences pain during menstruation, pain during sexual intercourse (at least the first) and pain during childbirth. At the moment when the woman feels she has to die, the new life makes its way.
Pain in the soul: emotional deficit
The woman also experiences pain in relationships, especially when she gives love and vitality and nothing is returned in return. This includes sex without love. When she falls into negativity, she is tempted to take what she lacks by the power of her magic (through seduction and subtlety, see e.g. The poisoned apple in Snow White). Then she is called a "witch" in fairy tales.
Spiritual pain: exploitation of love, oppression and subjugation
Because of her need for emotional closeness, the woman is vulnerable and can fall into the negative.
Thus, on the one hand, the man can dominate her by the fact that he is less dependent on emotional relatedness. On the other hand, he can also weaken her by wearing her down, devaluing her or doing violence to her. In addition, there is this problem: If she has already given him everything (through sexual intercourse), she is attached to him. Because unconsciously they both now "know" that she has to kill their love in order to be able to leave him. This fact also plays into his power over her.
[S. The woman, 3-in-1.]